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Temple Application Process

For 1 Hour Group sessions

These are hosted on the Temple of Payne Discord server, once you have paid for your chosen session go to the Discord server and complete the questions in the Pre-session Questions channel.

 

 

 

For all other Online Services 

Step One-

Fill out my application form. It is designed with a dual purpose to both gather knowledge I will need to facilitate sessions with you, and to determine if you are a suitable candidate. There are three main categories of questions, in four sections included on the application, which are:

  1. Your BDSM interests, limits, experiences, etc.

  2. Your health; any medical conditions, injuries, medications, and mental health.

  3. Your personality and personal motivations for participating in BDSM, and a personality assessment.

Step 2

After I have reviewed you application, if we seem like a good match, I will schedule a 30-40 minute phone interview with you. After that, we can schedule our initial session. Have any and all questions ready for the phone interview.

               Note:

  • If at any time during the process you have questions, you are welcome to politely ask me. Additionally, if during the screening period I decide we are not a good fit, I will let you know and not waste any additional time. If I know another Pro-Domme who I believe to be a better fit for you in the area, I will refer you. The vetting & application period can take up to a week.

  • During screening I prefer to communicate on Discord and my Discord handle is Payne #3842. If you are accepted as a submissive client, we may then communicate by email and text.

  • By applying to the Temple of Payne you agree that you know and acknowledge that there is tribute and that all my sessions are CFNM, that I provide Domme, Sadist, &Disciplinatrian services NOT sexual domination, and that I am a sadist.

  • Concerning my title, how to properly address me, my screening process, what to expect, & The Importance of Communication and Etiquette within the lifestyle. ****Read this thoroughly, before contacting me. ****Until you have completed my screening/vetting process for new submissive clients, you may refer to me as ‘Madame’, or ‘Miss Payne’. If, at the conclusion of that process I accept you as my submissive client, you will then refer to me using my title, ‘Priestess’, or ‘Priestess Payne’.

Step one-

The first step is to send me your list of three references that can vouch for your credibility (that you are who you say you are), and can verify that you are a safe person to conduct sessions with.

While it is preferable for at least one of your references to be a Pro-Domme/ Professional Dominatrix, it is acceptable to use past Dominants, play partners, or community members (if you list community members who have only witnessed your behavior as a submissive in public, you are required to have at least one reference who has acted as your Dominant/Top/Mistress during a private, in person scene/session) who can vouch for your safety, character, and experience. Experience is the least important of these, ensuring that you are a safe, non-violent, obedient submissive is of the utmost importance. Knowing and understanding your character has some overlap with safety, but also informs me if you are honest, honorable, and conduct yourself with integrity, courtesy, and respect. 

Step Two-

The second step is for you to fill out my application. It is designed with a dual purpose to both gather knowledge I will need to facilitate sessions with you, and to determine if you are a suitable candidate. There are three main categories of questions, in four sections included on the application, which are:

  1. Your BDSM interests, limits, experiences, etc.

  2. Your health; any medical conditions, injuries, medications, and mental health.

  3. Your personality and personal motivations for participating in BDSM, and a personality assessment.

Step 3-

After I have reviewed you application, if we seem like a good match, I will schedule a 30-40 minute phone interview with you. After that, we can schedule our initial session. Have any and all questions ready for the phone interview.

               Note:

  • If at any time during the process you have questions, you are welcome to politely ask me. Additionally, if during the screening period I decide we are not a good fit, I will let you know and not waste any additional time. If I know another Pro-Domme who I believe to be a better fit for you in the area, I will refer you. The vetting & application period can take up to a week.

  • During screening I prefer to communicate on Discord and my Discord handle is Payne #3842. If you are accepted as a submissive client, we may then communicate by email and text.

  • By applying to the Temple of Payne you agree that you know and acknowledge that there is tribute and that all my sessions are CFNM, that I provide Domme, Sadist, &Disciplinatrian services NOT sexual domination, and that I am a sadist.

  • Concerning my title, how to properly address me, my screening process, what to expect, & The Importance of Communication and Etiquette within the lifestyle. ****Read this thoroughly, before contacting me. ****Until you have completed my screening/vetting process for new submissive clients, you may refer to me as ‘Madame’, or ‘Miss Payne’. If, at the conclusion of that process I accept you as my submissive client, you will then refer to me using my title, ‘Priestess’, or ‘Priestess Payne’.

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