Can confirm to not overmeasure. If there's even a little wiggle room especially if its too long, penis can start to get erect then it pulls cage away from body which pulls on testicles. Luckily I have no apparent long term damage, but If I do screw it, they're useless anyway! Haha.
I remember searching online and being concerned with it being too tight, too loose is terrible too. Not too mention it's more likely to fall off, this would be an embarrassing occurrence at the grocery store!! Sorry sir I must've dropped some change...o dear.
Just wanted to like throw that out there, that clothing and such can be loose, jewelry too, chasity cages I feel need to be near perfect fit.
Wow, the last 2 days were really intense for this chastity slave, a big thank you to Miss Bella, to Mistress Star, all the other participants, and best of all, to everyone who attended the various events for the 1st anniversary of BoundBDSM. It is really a privilege to be part of this team, and I hope everyone enjoyed the festivities.
I was asked on the Discord Server to list some places to buy chastity devices. Here is a list of the ones I know of, keeping in mind that BoundBDSM does not sell chastity devices. Feel free to reply to add to the list, remembering the rules on this forum please, no external links. So here is a list, by no means complete:
Here’s what works best for me: (your results may vary)
Measure the flaccid penis, choose a cage that fits the flaccid penis in length and girth. A snug cage prevents most painful erections. It should be snug, but not tight.
Measure the circumference around the base of the balls including the penis (again when flaccid). This will be the circumference of the base ring. It shouldn’t be tight when flaccid.
The tricky part is the gap between the cage and the ring, it should not be too tight, but again, this gap should be small enough to stop the balls from retracting past the base ring. This can happen when relaxed, especially at night, and can be painful, especially if both balls are of different sizes.
If you’re going for long term wear, opt for a cage that has a lot of openings, that allows for ventilation and easy cleaning. Metal is better than plastic, but can be heavier.
Initially, you might need to lube around the base ring and on the front of the testicles. Silicone based lube works best, because it can remain longer than Water based lube.
Expect to have to start slowly, you will have to increase the time gradually.
Finally, unless you have a PA piercing, or are using a urethral insert, there are no cages that will be 100% safe from pulling a flaccid penis out. It’s the nature of the beast, however you should not be able to remove the cage completely, past the testicles.
Hi everyone, my name is Bondage and I have been in interested in Chastity for over 10 years now, and have purchased dozens of cages, Some worked good, some did not. But I'd like to know what people think about chastity devices, I am currently locked by Mistress Star in a device called "The guardian" it is a 3D printed device, and good for long time wear. I'd be interested in what works well for you also. And especially curious about subs wearing female chastity devices, are they comfortable (they don't look it)
Can confirm to not overmeasure. If there's even a little wiggle room especially if its too long, penis can start to get erect then it pulls cage away from body which pulls on testicles. Luckily I have no apparent long term damage, but If I do screw it, they're useless anyway! Haha.
I remember searching online and being concerned with it being too tight, too loose is terrible too. Not too mention it's more likely to fall off, this would be an embarrassing occurrence at the grocery store!! Sorry sir I must've dropped some change...o dear.
Just wanted to like throw that out there, that clothing and such can be loose, jewelry too, chasity cages I feel need to be near perfect fit.
Lorraine
I always wanted to be put in one
Wow, the last 2 days were really intense for this chastity slave, a big thank you to Miss Bella, to Mistress Star, all the other participants, and best of all, to everyone who attended the various events for the 1st anniversary of BoundBDSM. It is really a privilege to be part of this team, and I hope everyone enjoyed the festivities.
Long live BOUNDBDSM!
I was asked on the Discord Server to list some places to buy chastity devices. Here is a list of the ones I know of, keeping in mind that BoundBDSM does not sell chastity devices. Feel free to reply to add to the list, remembering the rules on this forum please, no external links. So here is a list, by no means complete:
OXY-SHOP
Locked in lust
Extreme restraints
House of Denial
ETSY
Mature Metal
Amazon (Varies according to country)
Lori's Chastity.
Sizing for a male chastity cage:
Here’s what works best for me: (your results may vary)
Measure the flaccid penis, choose a cage that fits the flaccid penis in length and girth. A snug cage prevents most painful erections. It should be snug, but not tight.
Measure the circumference around the base of the balls including the penis (again when flaccid). This will be the circumference of the base ring. It shouldn’t be tight when flaccid.
The tricky part is the gap between the cage and the ring, it should not be too tight, but again, this gap should be small enough to stop the balls from retracting past the base ring. This can happen when relaxed, especially at night, and can be painful, especially if both balls are of different sizes.
If you’re going for long term wear, opt for a cage that has a lot of openings, that allows for ventilation and easy cleaning. Metal is better than plastic, but can be heavier.
Initially, you might need to lube around the base ring and on the front of the testicles. Silicone based lube works best, because it can remain longer than Water based lube.
Expect to have to start slowly, you will have to increase the time gradually.
Finally, unless you have a PA piercing, or are using a urethral insert, there are no cages that will be 100% safe from pulling a flaccid penis out. It’s the nature of the beast, however you should not be able to remove the cage completely, past the testicles.
Hi everyone, my name is Bondage and I have been in interested in Chastity for over 10 years now, and have purchased dozens of cages, Some worked good, some did not. But I'd like to know what people think about chastity devices, I am currently locked by Mistress Star in a device called "The guardian" it is a 3D printed device, and good for long time wear. I'd be interested in what works well for you also. And especially curious about subs wearing female chastity devices, are they comfortable (they don't look it)
Here's a look at my collection of devices: